Well, that happened to me last night. I think it may have been magnified by the fact that I was not drinking, and she was.
I feel bad, because I really do like this person, but basically she had a couple of shots and turned into a rampaging ho. She always has liked attention from men, and that's cool, but....We're talking, she was
Acting slutty and desperate is not high on my list of things to do on a Friday night. I am not a prude, but I was incredibly embarrassed to be associated with her. (I have no wish to appear slutty by association.) And I couldn't leave, because she had driven over from the restaurant.
As soon as The Man got out of work, I asked him to please, PLEASE come and get me. I asked my drunk friend to send me a text when she got home safely. I would have stayed until the bitter end, but watching her act that way was seriously torture.
She did send me a text, to the effect that one of the guys she was talking to (someone I vaguely know) had text-messaged her a picture of his penis. Oh, and she had just gotten home.
Me: He sent you a penis pic?!
Drunk Friend: Yeah! Do you want to know-
Me: NO! I am very happy not knowing. Please don't tell me.
Me: You know, if a guy has a picture like that in his cell phone, how many women do you think he's shown it to?
DF: I dunno. Most of the guys I know have those pics in their phones.
Me: Are you serious?
DF: It's a guy thing. That, and they always have a picture of their car.
OK. Am I just a complete and utter Pollyanna? I am trying to be objective about it, but I really want to know if I am being a dork, or what. I would bet money that most of the men I know don't have a pic of the big P that they send out to random women. So either I am delusional, or her male friends are uncouth. I am thinking it's probably the latter. Any thoughts?